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i saw one interesting dating question in MSN.com. here u go

Ask Lynn: Advice on love
By Lynn Harris

Dear Lynn,What do you do when you meet online and you hit it off — as in, you actually had so much in common that you were stunned — but then, after six weeks of talking anywhere from four to ten hours a day online and by phone, the other person sees a picture of you and says, “You’re pretty, but can you call again when you lose some weight?” We were actually planning and talking about moving, marriage, the works. Now we talk every once in a while. He wants to “be friends” and “see how the weight thing goes.” What gives? That’s the only problem he saw in me.

here's the answer by lynn...

Dear Beauty,It’s an unfortunate truth of the world that some people have been conditioned to not be attracted to overweight people. It is unfortunate, and it is unfair, and everything else bad you can say about it, but they are entitled. After all, in the bigger picture — beyond societal standards of beauty — people have all sorts of preferences.

Some folks don’t like skinny people. Some folks only like people with glasses. For everyone who’s not into facial hair, there’s someone else who won’t even look at someone without a beard. Go figure. And there’s plenty to be said about physical attraction and why it’s essential in any relationship.

The problem arises when our preferences and, yes, our prejudices (entitled to them though we may be), wind up circumscribing our romantic horizons.

If this guy is willing to throw away all you thought you had in common, all those hours on the phone, all you two had invested, all over a few lousy pounds, without even giving an in-person meeting a chance — and without managing to find a gentler way to break this to you — then wow, no, I’m not sure he deserves more of your time. The only proper response to “call again when you lose some weight” is, “OK, then you call again when pigs fly.”



~oh dear~
i give deepest sympathy to u ...u should move-on if that guy see nothing best of u instead of that few pounds.. and i have the same sympathy for every girls out there whose boy treat u bad..
life is hard ald n u dun need someone else to burden the ald exhausting life. correct?

every girls need understanding and affectionate guy beside them...
i'm in the same page that i truly madly deeply got the roots of relationship's problem.

there's 3 stage of relationship :
1.blind love---> the world is only both of us and ur weaknesses are so sweet that i dun care
2.u start to despise everything bout him/her ---> the world is not sweet anymore n i will keep bragging until i dun see ur weaknesses anymore
3. harmonious life ----> after u can pass that damn second stage u may possibly achieve harmonious life


six weeks after Brad Pitt married to Jennifer Aniston in 2000,he got into the second stage and
the problem arose.


i'm lovin madonna - 4 minutes. lookin forward to her latest album * hard candy*

the other boleyn girl

the other boleyn girl...

the name is truly catchy for my eyes...and i saw the trailer in youtube....it's interesting!
the release date is 3rd april in singapore...yay!!
i want i want i want...here if u want to see the trailer




it's interesting how women's ambition can change the king's mindset, the sisterly affection, and....a country...

the review:

http://entertainment.timesonline.co.uk/tol/arts_and_entertainment/film/film_reviews/article3490547.ece

When rumours begin to circulate that King Henry VIII (Bana) is no longer intimate with his wife who has been unable to give him a male heir, Sir Thomas Boleyn concocts a plan to bring his family back to prominence: his daughter Anne (Portman) shall seduce the King and provide him with a son. However, the scheme goes off course when the King takes to the other Boleyn girl, Anne's younger sister and best friend Mary (Johansson). Although married already, Mary gives in to family pressure and reluctantly provides the King with a boy, but along the way, she finds herself falling in love with the surprisingly tender monarch. Of course, this love affair is no obstacle for Anne whose hunger for the throne now overpowers her sisterly love, and she enacts a plan that eventually tears her family and her country apart while leading to her legendary demise.



i'm looking forward into it...hope it's not disappointing....

i saw the bad and good reviews about it....different people,different taste of movies,i guess...;)

food food food

ah~

soup restaurant is really nice~~

i love this garlic chicken....yummy!!!

$53 for 2 pax

din tai fung is okay ar...but the queue is damn long lor....

i love crystal jade too in vivo city....the place differs a lot from another crystal jade...

thai express and dian xiao er also niceeee.....yummy!!

also dun forget to try founder bar kut teh...i'm lovin it...

for junk food,i prefer carl's jr or burger king....

foof food good food....expensive but worth it....hyaaa

odd dream

i've got weird weird dream this morning....

in my dream, i saw a movie trailer...ghost-fiction...it's very interesting until somebody's call me n wake up....ah grrr....

hungry n wanna have a bite now....

freebie

i feel better today....after a hard-breathing nite...but i guess that's how life works...up and down...swinging like monkey from tree to tree...but i guess i wonn't feel so bored having fluctuation in my life.. i really want to see newest bleach n d gray man n naruto...awww...

i wonder where are all my blog visitor's going??? lately no comment pass by... but i guess NUS is pretty pretty busy...hahhaha....i'm damn freebie...i'm quite jealous though of u all the hardworker...:D

i want to be PR so bad....so tired goin everytime to ngurus that student pass thing...ICA is damn crowded n the queue never stops...n i really really afraid of the bloodtaking required of thet medical certificate...

anybody know how to get three-months visit pass??? thanx...